Many sugar daddies are guilty of focusing solely on their needs and desires within the sugar dating relationship. After all, taking on the responsibility of serving as the main financial provider tends to give one an impression of self-importance. But there is such a thing as too much of something, and focusing solely on oneself entails the risk of neglecting that other crucial part of the relationship: the sugar baby.
Make no mistake about it: your sugar baby is just as important to a happy and fulfilling relationship as you are–perhaps even more so. The right sugar baby gives you a reason to go on, enables you to enjoy a different perspective on life, and generally makes the entire relationship worth going through. It stands to reason therefore that you should place a certain degree of importance on your sugar baby.
The question you should ask yourself then is: how important is your sugar baby to you? What lengths would you go to keep her and to make her feel appreciated? This article should help you determine the answers to these questions.
Establishing the type of relationship you want
Deciding on the type of relationship you want to develop will help you determine how much importance to place on your sugar baby. Obviously, the more importance your sugar baby has in your life, the more you will value her presence. This in itself will enable you to show her the level of appreciation necessary in order to make her feel valued.
Not every relationship requires you to go all out when it comes to showing your sugar baby affection. Of course, it goes without saying that you will have to treat your sugar baby with respect and kindness, regardless of whether she is a temporary fling or a partner in what you hope to be a lasting relationship.
But excessive displays of affection and appreciation will run you ragged, especially if you have no intention of maintaining a long-term relationship with your current sugar baby. You might therefore want to tailor your approach accordingly depending on your sugar baby’s value to you, while still showing her due respect and kindness.
Showing her your appreciation
There are many ways by which you can show your sugar baby just how much you appreciate her presence and her worth to you. Despite the businesslike nature of the sugar dating relationship, most sugar babies are actually incurable romantics at heart. You will find that even seemingly clichéd tactics as giving her chocolates and flowers can be remarkably effective. There is also still plenty of mileage to be gained by taking her out on dates, particularly on intimate encounters wherein you two can spend quality time together.
Don’t neglect the more basic and seemingly mundane things as well. Simply keeping up your end of the agreement goes a long way in communicating to your sugar baby just how much value you place on her and how much you want her to continue being a part of your life.
You may also want to occasionally ask her how she is doing in the relationship and if there is something more that you could be doing for her. Your goal here isn’t necessarily to commit to giving her more money or financial support. Rather, you want to show her that you care about her and that you are concerned about making sure that she gets as much out of the relationship as you do.
Presenting your sugar baby to the world
Depending on the role that your sugar baby plays in your life, you may eventually come to the point when you will consider introducing her to your friends and family. Now this is never an easy decision to make, and you will likely have to give it a great deal of thought before you make any big decisions.
The issue can be especially tricky if you have children that are still too young to understand why you have felt the need to be part of a new relationship. If the memory of your divorce from their mother is still fresh in their minds, you might encounter considerable difficulty in making them understand the role of this new person in your life.
Same goes with family members. Conservative relatives and family members that were close to your ex-wife may find it difficult to accept that you have found someone new, even more so that she is a sugar baby. You will have to determine as well whether you will present your sugar baby for what she is, or present her as your partner in a serious relationship.
You would be advised to tread lightly when it comes to presenting your sugar baby to the world. There is just way too much potential for things to go wrong and for feelings to be hurt, especially if you have just come from a painful separation or divorce. Try to act responsibility in a mature and considerate manner, and you will have a much better chance of getting your sugar baby integrated into your life without causing harm to those around you.
Doing what it takes to keep the relationship
At the end of the day, you really have to ask yourself what lengths you are willing to go to in order to keep the relationship alive. On the one hand, it is easy enough to find a sugar baby if you have the financial means to pay for such arrangements. It should therefore be a fairly simple matter to find another sugar baby if things don’t work out with your current one.
On the other hand, a relationship in which you and your sugar baby get along exceedingly well is a rare and wonderful thing. Such relationships don’t come along very often, particularly in the sugar dating world where connections tend to be temporal and fleeting. If you happen to luck out and end up with the ideal sugar baby, you should definitely consider making an effort to keep the relationship going on for as long as possible.