In many cases, sugar daddies and sugar babies really do prefer to keep their lives separate for the most part. However, there will always be those special sugar couples that decide moving in together makes the most sense for them instead and with good reason. Your daddy gets to spend more time with you than he otherwise would, and you get to save on living expenses, so it’s a win-win situation all around. Here are a few things to keep in mind as the two of you handle the process of merging your two separate lives.
- Make sure the timing it right.
If you’ve ever lived with a romantic partner before, then you already know it’s nothing to rush into. You both want to really think things through first, and this is no less the case with a sugar relationship that’ll bring you happiness than a relationship of any other type. That said, make sure this is something you’re doing because you both wholeheartedly agree it’s the best thing for your relationship, as well as the logical next step. This isn’t something you want to do solely for practical reasons or because it simply sounds like a good idea. This isn’t something either one of you should feel pressured into doing either.
- Have a trial run first.
It’s hardly uncommon for a couple to get along fantastically before they move in together only to find out their relationship really doesn’t translate well into cohabitation. This could easily turn out to be the case for you and your daddy, no matter how much you adore each other’s company right now. Bring up the idea of trying things out on a temporary basis before making things official and permanent. (Two weeks is a good place to start, but the two of you can make the trial period longer if you wish.) If it turns out that the two of you love living together every bit as much as you think you will, you can take the next steps toward making a permanent move, up to and including moving all of your things.
- Discuss it thoroughly.
Before you actually decide to go ahead with moving in, you and your great sugar daddy should sit down for a frank, thorough discussion to make sure you’re both on the same page as far as your expectations go. What does your daddy expect of you as far as the household duties go? Does he want you to manage the cooking, cleaning, and upkeep on your own, or does he prefer that the two of you share those responsibilities? What are your expectations of him? Will he be covering all of the expenses, or does he expect you to contribute when it comes to certain bills? Come up with some ground rules that you both agree to ahead of time to avoid conflict and frustration later.
- Decide what will happen if things don’t work out.
There are many reasons why people prefer sugar dating relationships to the traditional alternatives, but the refreshing level of honesty involved is definitely one of the most important. That said, it’s really to your benefit for the both of you to discuss how you’d both like things to go down if living together ultimately turns out to have been a bad idea. Will the two of you simply revert to the way things were before, only with the both of you living in your own places again, or is this a make-or-break turning point in the relationship? Again, communication is the key to successfully managing expectations and avoiding hurt feelings or resentment. The possibility of things not working out is never a pleasant one to discuss, but it’s important that you do so regardless.
At the end of the day, the decision to move in with your sugar daddy is an exciting one to be sure. The two of you will finally be able to enjoy each other’s company on a full-time basis, as well as take your special relationship to the next level. However, it’s important to make sure all your bases are covered so that your relationship remains as sweet as it’s always been.