Call Your Sugar Baby
In the initial stages of the relationship, you, the Sugar Daddy, and your potential Sugar Baby will only communicate via the dating website that you’re using or through email if you have decided to exchange email addresses early on. After a while—like days and weeks of exchanging messages—if there is mutual interest between you and the Sugar Baby, you will eventually build a connection with her and finally move on to the next stage, which is getting your potential Sugar Baby’s phone number. She may ask for your number or willingly give you hers. Either way, it’s a good sign because it means that she wants to get deeper into the new relationship and is interested in becoming your Sugar Baby. At first, you will probably just be exchanging text messages here and there, but know that eventually, it will have to move on to phone calls. And you will need to prepare for this.
Even when you finally have your potential Sugar Baby’s number, you can’t just go ahead and give her a call. There are certain preparations that you must do first and these are things that could make or break the possibility of a relationship with her. Phone calls are very different from online chatting and exchanging emails or text messages. While non-voice messages are easy to craft and send, coming up with things to say and ways to respond while on a phone call is complicated and difficult. If you’re simply writing your messages, you can easily edit it to make it look better or even look up ways to write it, but when you’re on a phone call you can’t just take back what you said or imitate someone else’s way of talking. But this is also a good thing as this will allow you and your potential Sugar Baby to get to know each other better. Both of your true colors will show better on the phone, so it will help you determine whether there is a real connection there. It’s better to figure out if there is a connection while talking to her on the phone so you won’t have to go on a date with her only to realize that it’s a waste of time for both of you.
Protecting Your Privacy And Safety
The first phone call with your potential Sugar Baby may be important, but so is your privacy and safety. The thing is, you don’t really know who this person is, so it’s vital that you take steps to protect yourself from any kind of threat or harm. Instead of using the phone that you already have right now to communicate with her, get another phone that you will only use for communicating with potential Sugar Babies. This way, they won’t have your personal phone number and so they won’t be able to use it against you in the future. In addition, if things don’t go well between the two of you, you can just dispose of the extra phone or change that phone’s number.
If you don’t like the idea of getting a second phone, use voice call apps instead. A good option would be Skype. Google Hangouts is another good option.
Make a Good Impression
It goes without saying, but making a good impression is important if you want the phone call to go well. If right from the start of your conversation you are already making a bad impression, the Sugar Baby may end the call and may never talk to you again. Be polite and considerate but don’t be boring. Always sound cheerful so the Sugar Baby will feel that you’re truly happy about talking to her. When you’re cheerful it’s going to be easier for her to relax. She can’t see your facial expression and you don’t want to make her think you’re angry by sounding so stiff.
You can start the conversation by telling her you’re glad you finally had a chance to talk over the phone. If the Sugar Baby isn’t the type to like talking about herself, you can share bits of information about yourself instead and see how she responds. Follow it up by asking her questions, whether related to the topic or random. You want to make her feel that you genuinely want to get to know her. You also have to make sure that you fill any awkward silences—you’re going to want to keep the conversation going. Just make sure it seems natural. The more relaxed both of you are, the better the flow of the conversation.
You must also try to be as articulate as possible. This is your chance to impress her or captivate her heart. Being short with your responses is only going to make the conversation boring. For example, if she asks you how your day went, you could tell her what you did and describe how it went instead of just saying it was okay.
Trust Your Instincts
Talking to a person you’ve never talked to before can be nerve-racking, especially if it’s someone you’re planning to have a relationship with. You don’t know whether she’s a good person or not and you will never know until you’ve met several times in person. It will be best to trust your instincts on this. If you feel that there’s something off about a certain Sugar Baby, don’t meet her and just cease all communications with her. Don’t fret—there are plenty of other Sugar Babies in the sea.
Remember to Charge Your Phone
It’s no secret that people tend to forget to charge their phones. That’s why they end up with dead phones a lot of the time when they go out, or when they’re talking to someone on it. You do not want to be like them. You do not want to have an amazing conversation with a Sugar Baby only for it to get ruined by your phone dying. Before the call, make sure that your phone is fully-charged. You may also leave it plugged in so you can have peace of mind that if the conversation gets really long, your phone isn’t going to die.
End the Call Right
When it’s time to end the conversation, be very polite about it as women can be quite sensitive. You can say that as much as you’d like to keep talking, you have to go now. If you’re still interested in this Sugar Baby after talking to her, arrange the time for your next phone call before you end the conversation or you can just tell her that you’re going to message her soon. Always end with a positive note to keep her interested in starting a relationship with you.