Making Your Relationship Last
You may think it’s weird that there is a guide on how to keep your Sugar Baby, but with the huge number of Sugar Daddies being dumped left and right, it’s only right that you learn the proper ways to keep your Sugar Baby happy so your relationship will last long. Just because you have found your ideal Sugar Baby and everything seems to be going well doesn’t mean your Sugar Baby isn’t going to leave you. If you think finding a Sugar Baby is difficult, then keeping her is many times harder. You don’t want to invest all that time, money and effort only to have them all wasted when your Sugar Baby dumps you. Even if things are going really well, things can still go wrong in a matter of hours or days.
Most Sugar Daddies who are new to this kind of arrangement believe that they will be immune to being dumped after both parties enter into a mutually beneficial agreement. But that’s not the case at all. Even the richest Sugar Daddies with the most lavish of lifestyles get kicked to the curb. It doesn’t matter whether you have a verbal or written agreement—the Sugar Baby can still leave you if she has enough reason to. And there are many possible reasons why, but since every Sugar Baby and every agreement is different, there’s no use wasting your time thinking about it when she does leave you. What you should focus on is how to keep her happy. This can be a bit tricky, as you may do everything right and she still won’t be satisfied. If you believe you have done everything in your power to satisfy her and she still isn’t happy, then it’s best to move on and find the next Sugar Baby. But to help prevent that from happening, study these methods of keeping your Sugar Baby happy.
Honor Your Agreement
This is the most important thing that you have to bear in mind. There’s a reason why an official agreement is required in every Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby relationship. The official agreement serves as both parties’ guide to keeping each other happy. If you don’t follow the agreement, then there is no point in continuing the relationship, since that’s what it is based on. Do not ever make the mistake of refusing to adhere to the official agreement as this could make your Sugar Baby feel betrayed or played. Every now and then read your agreement so you don’t miss anything. If your agreement is only verbal, make sure to write down your responsibilities somewhere so that you can take a look at it later when necessary. If any changes have to be made in your arrangement, discuss it with your Sugar Baby immediately instead of implementing the changes without her knowing. Hiding isn’t going to help either as she’ll always find out eventually. And if you do make a mistake or violate any terms of the agreement, apologize right away and make it up to her by doing something special for her.
Show Your Loyalty
If you have arrangements with multiple Sugar Babies at the same time, you can still show your loyalty to each one without actually being faithful. Many Sugar Babies realize that their Sugar Daddies won’t limit themselves to only one girl. And oftentimes, they are completely okay with that, especially if you don’t meet each other that often in the first place. However, they won’t appreciate it if you accidentally call her the wrong name or reference something you talked about with another Sugar Baby. Always know who you’re talking to or going on a date with. You need to make her feel like she is the only one in your life even if that’s not actually true. Give her your complete attention and don’t think about the other girls when you’re together. If you don’t have that much time in the week to meet with all your Sugar Babies, just spend your free time with one and schedule a date with another Sugar Baby the following week. Overbooking yourself is just going to make things harder for you and your Sugar Babies.
Pay Attention to the Little Things
The little things are often overlooked in relationships, whether sugar dating or otherwise. But it’s the little things that actually matter, and are usually the cause of many fights and breakups. That’s why it’s important to pay attention to them. Simple things like always being late to your dates, forgetting to respond to her messages and neglecting her will eventually add up until she can’t take it anymore. Get to know what she dislikes and what angers her so you can avoid these things. Also, the more time you spend with her the more you learn how to read her. Pretty soon you’ll easily see the signs of when she’s stressed out, upset, feeling down or feeling sick. If you can see that she’s not in the best emotional state, you can help her by procuring her comfort items, taking her to a nice dinner or even massaging parts of her body that are tense. In addition to all these, learn all her favorites so you can incorporate them into your dates and the gifts that you give her. Ask her opinion about certain things like the places you go to, the attire you wear and other things so you can continuously improve the experience for both of you.
Go Out of Your Way to Make Her Happy
This one’s gonna be hard, especially if you’re not exactly the type to do this, but you need to do what it takes to keep your Sugar Baby, even if it means putting in some more effort into making her happy. But when it comes down to it, it’s really not that hard. You only need to pay attention to her, make her your priority when you’re together, show her that you value and care about her and provide her with all the things she needs. If you show her that you are trying your best to make her happy, she will appreciate it and return the favor by doing whatever she can to make you happy as well.